The 12 Days of Christmas – But Make It Self Care
Because nobody really wants 23 birds and a pear tree for Christmas…here are 12 gifts for your mental health instead. During the holidays we typically focus on the giving of gifts, food, time and energy and we are here to remind you that you need cared for too. So, let’s give ourselves the 12 Days of Christmas Self Care Edition.
These suggestions are bite-sized additions to your holiday schedule. So, whether you are squeezing it in or have time to fill, you can add them to your day.
Here is an easy checklist you can print or save to your phone as a reminder to give yourself the best gift of all, your time and attention.
Day 1 – A Quiet Moment: Gift yourself 10 minutes of silence — no phone, no TV, no demands. Just breathe and be.
Day 2 – Gratitude: Write down 3 things you’re thankful for. They don’t need to be big. Finding small joys or “glimmers” are powerful.
Day 3 – Connection: Reach out to one person who fills your cup. A text, call, or coffee invite counts.

Day 4 – Movement: Give yourself 10–20 minutes of movement you enjoy such as stretching, yoga, walking, or dancing in the kitchen.
Day 5 – Get Outside: Spend a few minutes in fresh air. Look up at the sky. What can you notice around you?
Day 6 – Comfort: Enjoy a cozy comfort item such as a warm blanket, favourite socks, soft hoodie, or a warm drink.
Day 7 – Nourishment: Eat one meal or snack on purpose — not rushed, not distracted, not skipped.
Day 8 – Creativity: Do something creative for 10 minutes like colouring, baking, crafting, writing, music, or decorating.
Day 9 – Boundaries: Say no to something that drains you or delegate a task that doesn’t need to be yours.
Day 10 – Laughter: Watch, read, or do something that makes you laugh. Humour is a great form of medicine.
Day 11 – Declutter Something Small: Start small with an area like your junk drawer, purse, nightstand and reclaim it.
Day 12 – Celebration of You: Write down 3 things you are proud of from this year. No matter how big or small, they all count.
The holidays can be full, loud, and demanding or slow, quiet and lonely. These 12 gifts are reminders that your mental health matters too. You are worth time, care, comfort, and rest.
If you are looking to connect for further support, here are your options in Prairie Mountain Health:
OVER THE AGE OF 18
NORTH of Riding Mountain National Park: 1-866-332-3030
SOUTH of Riding Mountain National Park: 1-888-379-7699
UNDER THE AGE OF 18
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